QWASI WILLIAMS knows that embalming is not the most glamorous profession or one that most people readily gravitate to. And he doesn’t care.
For him, it’s a dream career.
“It’s true that the profession of embalming is often viewed with misconceptions or seen as unconventional. However, for those who choose this career, there are aspects that are deeply meaningful and fulfilling,” Williams, 35, told Newsday on March 24.
A junior embalmer at Belgrove’s Funeral Home, Lambeau, Tobago, Williams admitted that choosing such a career can trigger a variety of reactions from family members.
“Some families might be supportive and proud, appreciating the importance and dignity of the work in helping families during difficult times while others might be uncomfortable with or have misconceptions about the nature of the work due to its association with death. In such cases, they may need reassurance about the safety and ethical standards of the profession.”
He believes communication is the key to dispelling the misconceptions.
“Open discussions about the role and responsibilities of an embalmer as well as sharing the personal stories of the profession can help family members understand and support such a career choice.”
Williams has been practising since 2009 “and I can wholeheartedly say that this journey has been incredibly fulfilling and humbling.”
“Over the years, I have had the privilege of meeting families from all walks of life, each bringing diverse cultural backgrounds and unique stories. These encounters have enriched my understanding and appreciation of the profound role we play during such critical moments in people’s lives.”
Saying his passion for the job remains as strong as it was when he began, Williams said each day presents new opportunities to learn and serve, fostering a sense of excitement and purpose.
“The practice of creating a lasting and dignified final physical memory for loved ones is not merely a responsibility, it is a joy that fulfils my passion for helping others during their time of need.”
Williams continued, “I am truly grateful for the trust families place in me during such sensitive times and I consider it an honour to support them by preserving the dignity of those they hold dear. This profound aspect of my work continues to inspire and motivate me.”
[caption id="attachment_1146965" align="alignnone" width="767"] Qwasi Williams at work at Belgrove’s Tobago. - Photo courtesy Qwasi Williams[/caption]
Most people, he said, are drawn to the field because they have a strong desire to help families through the grieving process and view embalming as one of the ways to provide comfort and dignity to those who have passed.
He added some may be fascinated with the science and art involved in embalming, including anatomy, chemistry and restorative techniques, while others may be driven by a family tradition to work in the funeral industry.
Embalming, Williams said, involves a combination of scientific knowledge and artistic skill.
“Restoration and preparation require preci
